Tea Ceremony and Banquet

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Where and When is the Ceremony?

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Where: Royal Queen Restaurant, flushing. Located inside the world mall (top floor) When: May 3rd 2026, tea ceremony to start at 4:30pm, dinner approximately 5:30pm.

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How to reach the venue

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Subway: Take the 7 train to Flushing-Main street and the restaurant is a 2 minute walk LIRR: Port washington branch to Flushing-Main street Street parking: There is street parking available (sometimes meters are broken so bring quarters or use nyc app) Garage parking: There is also a garage with elevator access to the venue (World mall garage). Please note parking is limited and large vans are not permitted in garage

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What is a Chinese Tea Ceremony?

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The tea ceremony is a meaningful tradition in which the couple formally serves tea to their parents and elders. It is a way of expressing gratitude, honoring family, and symbolizing the joining of two families. It is typically intimate and deeply sentimental.

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Is the tea ceremony the same as the wedding ceremony?

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No — the tea ceremony is a separate cultural tradition. It focuses on family blessings and takes place before the banquet celebration.

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What should I wear?

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For the banquet, attire is formal or cocktail attire unless otherwise noted. For the tea ceremony (if attending), guests may see the bride wearing a traditional red dress called a qipao or cheongsam. Red symbolizes happiness and prosperity. Please avoid wearing: All white (traditionally reserved for mourning in Chinese culture) Bright solid red (reserved for the bride) Otherwise, festive and elegant attire is welcome.

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What happens during the tea ceremony?

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The couple will kneel or bow and serve tea to elders in order of seniority. In return, elders offer blessings and often gifts or red envelopes (hóngbāo). Guests typically observe quietly and respectfully.

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What kind of food will be served?

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The banquet is a multi-course meal featuring symbolic dishes representing prosperity, happiness, and longevity. Expect seafood, meat, vegetables, and dessert courses served family-style. Come hungry! If you have dietary restrictions, please let us know in advance.

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Is it customary to give a gift?

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Red envelopes with a monetary gift are traditional for Chinese weddings. However, your presence is truly the greatest gift. A registry option will also be available for those who prefer it.