We meet through a mutual friend. I was caring for a friend at the VA Hospital in Indianapolis. Jay had just moved there and was working some crazy hours. We talked on the phone for hours, over the course of two weeks. before we meet When I say hours I do mean hours. We would be on the phone for sometimes three and four hours a day just talking about life and what we thought about politics, guns, kids, healthcare you name it we talked about it. Our first date was very sweet and very simple. But God had a plan for us. Throughout these last three years we have had our share of highs and lows but the one thing that has remained is our love for each other and our love for God. Without him there would be no us.