we think it happened over time. at first, a big wedding was our dream! especially with all our loved ones. when our one year anniversary of being engaged hit in august, we realized we. just. wanted. to. be. married. there was so much fuss with planning and honestly it was overwhelming to say the least. we were planning an anniversary trip to nyc and just said fuck it. why not? our favorite city. just us. it was perfect.
we honestly couldn't choose between all the people we love. we didn't want anyone to feel singled out and we struggled trying to find a balance where we could make everyone happy. we felt like this was the best decision, so no one felt left out.
honestly, no. we felt as if our engagement party was like a little wedding where we could celebrate our love with our friends and family. we hope to celebrate with everyone individually.
we always joke that it's 5 years from now. but honestly, we just want to enjoy our married life for a little while. we envision our lives with little green eyed asian babies (as lourdes would put it, hehe) they are definitely in our future but children are also a lifetime commitment. we ask that you please respect our time as husband and wife and try not to push babies on us, just yet. hehe.