Jason and I met on one of the warmest Decembers I can remember in Vermont. It was December 11th and it was the day after my birthday. A few friends and I were headed to a bar to celebrate my birthday but they wanted to pit stop at a bonfire to see a few of their other friends/significant others. That was when i saw Jason - across from the bonfire. I couldn't help but feel like he was going to be a significant part of my life. (I know - you're thinking i'm mushing this up for you but I'm serious!). We didn't speak much at the bonfire but he had given me a Coors light from his cooler - and when we were ready to head to the bar- Jay came with us! We spent the night at Club Karib (which is now called something else) making small talk and having drinks. I remember Jay specifically asking me how old I was - and that was when we realized we were ten years apart in age. He insisted he had an age rule - I believe it was 3 years. By the end of the night he had invited me to come home with him - to which I replied "You can take my number and earn it". Our night ended with him kissing me and telling me I was worth it. The most magical moment about meeting Jay was the fact that i had wished on my birthday candles that I would meet someone who would change my mind about Men. 24 hours later - I met my soul mate.