FAQs

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Are children allowed?

Answer

While we love your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding an adults only event with the exception of a few family members. We kindly ask that you only bring those formally invited on your invitation. If your invitation was addressed to your family (i.e. Smith Family) your children are considered invited.

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Where and when is the wedding taking place?

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Our ceremony will take place at Holy Family Cathedral in downtown Tulsa. The ceremony will begin at 1PM and we ask you be seated by 12:45PM. Our reception will be held at the Tulsa Club Hotel ballroom and will begin shortly after the ceremony has ended.

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Is there a dress code?

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We would love to see you dress up with us! Our dress code is black tie.

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How do I RSVP and when is the deadline?

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A QR code to our wedding website has been included with the save the date and will also be on the invitation. The deadline for save the dates is November 30th. If we have not received confirmation of your attendance you will be marked as not attending.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate extra guests. Every guest that has been formally invited will be listed on the RSVP link.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests? Where do you recommend I stay?

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A link to our hotel block can be found below. The reception will take place at the Tulsa Club Hotel in downtown Tulsa. There are plenty of hotels within walking distance if you would prefer to stay elsewhere.

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Will food and drinks be served?

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Directly after the ceremony a cocktail hour will take place at the ballroom and will have appetizers and drinks. Once the bride and groom and their families have arrived, a plated meal will be served.

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Will there be a bar?

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Yes! We will have an open bar starting at cocktail hour and ending 30 minutes before the reception ends.

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Do the venues have parking?

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There is a large parking lot in front of the church that is free and open to all guests. Valet parking is available at the hotel for $28 or there is a parking garage directly behind the hotel.