Bridesmaid
Chloe is one of Rachel's bridesmaids! Chloe has been in my life since she was 5 years old! I have watched this girl grow into the most incredible human! I strive to be more like her daily! She is so important to me, and I just couldn't do this day without her! Chlo, i love you with my whole heart! You're one of my favorite people!
Bridesmaid
Josie is one of Rachel's bridesmaids. I started taking care of Josie when she was 4 months old in daycare! She has always been the one that can make my mood turn around with just a hug! I adore her more than anything! Josie was the first person I told about Janiece, so it was only fitting to have her standing beside me! My Josephine, words cannot describe my love for you!
Bridesmaid
Macie is one of Rachel's bridesmaids! Macie is a person in my life I didn't know I needed! Macie became my chosen niece in 2020 and I cant even imagine life without her! She always makes you feel loved and important! It is so special to have her standing beside me! Mace, you're so special to me. I love you so much!
Bridesman
Christian is Rachel's bridesman! This boy! He is a whirlwind of a personality! I love Bub with every fiber of my being! If I am every feeling down, he is the one to make me smile! His grin and a kiss makes everything better! My life wouldn't be the same with him in it! Bubba, you are my heart and I love you with everything.
Best Man
Stephen is Janiece's best man! Stephen and I have known each other for almost ten years now. Our friendship started when he rescued me from being stranded at Newark airport in NJ on my way back from West Africa. Stephen provided a safe space for me as I came to terms with my queerness, and supported me as I came out and moved to NYC. When he moved to Portland, I knew it was a matter of time before I would follow. I'm so glad I did because it led me to meet and fall in love with Rachel! Stephen is more than just my best friend. He is family. Stephen, I wouldn't be here today without you! Love you, buddy!
Maid of Honor
Giosi is Janiece's maid of honor! Giosi is one of my former nursing students turned best friend! We got to know each other on a medical mission trip to Peru her sophomore year. I got to see her grow into a nurse and now a nurse practitioner! We've traveled to multiple states and countries together. I know she can always get us where we need to go if we're lost! She's also the reason I'm a Hamilton fan :) Giosi, I value our friendship dearly, and can't imagine my life without you! Thank you for being my friend, my chosen family, and my maid of honor! I love you!
Matron of Honor
Danae is Janiece's matron of honor! Danae is my youngest sister and (most importantly) mother to my adorable baby nephew! Growing up, I never knew that my kid sister would grow to be one of my best friends. She is the family peacemaker and yet, one of my fiercest advocates. Danae, I'm so blessed to have a sister who is my best friend. I love you!
Escorting Janiece Down The Isle
CJ is Janiece's brother! “To the outside world, we all grow old. But not to brothers and sisters. We know each other as we always were. We know each other’s hearts. We’ve shared private family jokes. We remember family feuds and secrets, family griefs and joys. We live outside the touch of time.” – Clara Ortega Of all my siblings, CJ and I are the most alike... which made us butt heads a LOT growing up. Though we may not always see eye to eye, I know that CJ would do anything for me. He's helped me move so many times, including to different states. He would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it. My favorite thing about him, though, is his sense of humor and how he can make me laugh! CJ, it is an honor to have you walk me down the aisle! I love you, buddy!
Flower Girl
Poppy is Rachel's cousin. Miss Pops is a ball of energy! She tells the best stories filled with blabber! Ray and Nee are so happy to have you as our flower girl! Love you!
Ring Bearer
Theo is Janiece's baby nephew! He's here just to be cute!
Ring Bearer
Rachel was Viggo's nanny for a short time and his parents Rikke and Evan invited me in as their family! Viggo is the silliest little boy, with the biggest personality! I love you Veegs!
DJ
DJ Bobbi Ann Mason is making a comeback!! Bobbi is one of Rachel's best friends. I met her when taking care of Josie in daycare! She asked me to babysit for the kids and then I just literally never left their house! I moved across the country to be with my chosen family, and I'm so happy I did! Had I not, I wouldn't have met Janiece! Bobbi, you're my family, you gave me my kids. I love you so much.
Wedding Coordinator
Renae is part of Rachel's chosen family! I would not be here, marrying Janiece if it was not for Renae. She and Bobbi fell in love and that's what brought us all here! You have taken me in as part of your family and I couldn't not be prouder to call you my friend! You have the biggest heart and I love you dearly!
Officiant
Chris is one of Janiece's friends from NYC! Chris established and led a queer-affirming community called Common Ground in NYC, which I joined when I took a travel nurse contract during Covid. The love and acceptance of that community contributed towards my journey to coming out as queer. Chris can always be counted on for good conversation or philosophical debate over good food and good drinks. It's an honor to have him officiate our wedding ceremony.