Truth be told, we actually dated in the past and it was wrong timing. We just didn’t mesh. So we went our separate ways. Ben won’t admit it but for almost 3 years, he kept pinning after me since then. I would turn him down each time but every few months he would randomly pop up again and ask me on a date. So, May 2021, I agreed to try the dating thing again (he wore me down lol). This time we just clicked. Things has seem to take off quickly after we reconnected. Purchased a home together, got another cat and now, the marriage. We did it backwards but I wouldn’t change a thing.