Poruwa Ceremony
Arrival of the Bride and Groom
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The bride and groom, are escorted to the Poruwa platform by their respective families (The drummers and traditional musicians herald their entrance.)
Stepping onto the Poruwa
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The couple steps onto the Poruwa, first the groom, followed by the bride, usually assisted by their respective fathers This symbolizes their first steps into married life together.
Welcoming
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The marriage celebrant welcomes the couple and invites the families to stand around the Poruwa.
Recitation of Blessings
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Sanskrit stanzas or blessings are chanted to invoke protection, prosperity, and good fortune for the couple.
Ceremony
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Exchange of Betel Leaves: The bride and groom exchange betel leaves, symbolizing respect and remembrance of ancestors up to seven generations from the past Handing Over of the Bride: The bride’s father formally hands her over to the groom, representing the merging of two families. Tying of Little Fingers: The pinky fingers of the couple are tied together with a golden thread and blessed water is poured over them—a gesture wishing for unity and an unbreakable bond. Offer the necklace and Saree: Tyler promise to provide for Janani in their future life together Tyler Offers a white Cloth to Janani’s mother: Expressing gratitude for her nurturing and love from conception. Tyler and Janani offer gifts to parents: as appreciation and gratitude Lighting of the Oil Lamp: Both families unite to light the traditional oil lamp, signifying the joining of two households and the spreading of light and happiness. Conclusion and Blessings: The ceremony concludes with the couple stepping down from the Poruwa together, signifying their entry into married life as equals.