See You in Cabo
Meet the Wedding Party
Monica Graffius-Laub
Matron of Honor
From the moment we met, it was truly friends at first sight. For the past 15 years, Monica has been so much more than a best friend — she’s been my rock, my confidant, my adventure buddy, and my chosen family. We’ve grown up side by side, celebrating life’s biggest moments and holding each other through the hardest ones. From late-night talks and endless laughter to new jobs, new homes, and everything in between, Monica has been there through it all. I can’t imagine taking this next step in life without her by my side — just like she’s been every step of the way.
Vincent Montana
Best Man
Vince and Trevor’s friendship goes all the way back to when they were just 10 years old, and they’ve been best friends since they were 15. Through every milestone — from growing up together and chasing dreams to all of life’s ups and downs — Vince has always been by Trevor’s side. Even though he now lives in California, their bond has never wavered. They still talk all the time, picking up right where they left off no matter the distance. Trevor couldn’t imagine anyone else standing beside him as his best man and lifelong friend.
Demi Usamanont
Bridesmaid
Demi is Jamie’s sister and built-in best friend. From childhood memories to all of life’s biggest moments, she’s been by Jamie’s side through it all. Her love and support have always been such an important part of Jamie’s life. Jamie couldn’t imagine celebrating this special day without her sister — her forever friend — standing right beside her.
Preston Walchli
Groomsman
Preston and Trevor weren’t exactly friends at first sight. They met while working at We-Ko-Pa Golf and went to ASU together, but it wasn’t until they became roommates that their friendship really took off. Living together turned into a bond neither of them expected, and over time, they became inseparable. From shared adventures to endless laughs in the group chat that never dies, Preston has become not just a friend, but a brother. Trevor couldn’t imagine his wedding day without him standing by his side.
Ashleigh Kong
Bridesmaid
Ashleigh is more than a cousin — she’s the sister I never knew I had. We didn’t meet until I was 12, but from the moment we connected, we’ve been inseparable. She’s been there through all the big moments in my life, always bringing love, support, and endless laughter. Honestly, she’s the funniest person I know, and I can’t imagine celebrating this special day without her by my side.
Andrew Weston
Groomsman
Trevor first met Andrew during a tour at ASU, but they didn’t reconnect until junior year of college — and from that moment on, they’ve been best friends ever since. Andrew is funny, honest, and the life of the party, and he has been there for all of life’s milestones — from the big moments to the everyday laughs. Trevor is also close with Andrew’s wife, Rachel, making them both like family. Even though Andrew now lives in Tennessee, distance hasn’t mattered — they still talk every day in the group chat that never dies, full of sports talk, jokes, and everything in between. Trevor couldn’t imagine celebrating this day without him by his side.
Jordie Landeros
Bridesmaid
Jordie came into Jamie’s life through mutual friends, but it quickly felt like she had always been there. Her bright spirit, infectious laughter, and genuine love for the people around her make her impossible not to adore. Jamie has been drawn to Jordie’s kindness and unwavering support from the very start, and over time, she has become more than a friend — she’s family. Jamie can’t imagine this special day without Jordie by her side, sharing in the joy, love, and all the memories that make life so meaningful.
Mike Destefino
Groomsman
Trevor and Mike first met while working at We-Ko-Pa, where a shared love of sports quickly turned coworkers into friends. Over the years, Mike’s been there for all of life’s big moments — from college days to weddings and everything in between. Whether it’s talking sports or cheering on ASU football, there’s never a dull moment. Trevor’s grateful to have Mike by his side for another unforgettable milestone.
Deanna Decker
Bridesmaid
Jamie is so grateful to have a friend like Deanna. Always supportive, a great listener, and ready to celebrate at a moment’s notice, she’s also an espresso martini connoisseur! Deanna has been there for all of life’s milestones, sharing laughs, love, and unforgettable memories along the way.
Mitch Harmon
Groomsman
Mitch and Trevor first met while working at We‑Ko‑Pa, and what started as coworkers quickly turned into close friends. With a shared love of sports and a knack for enjoying a good time, Mitch has been there for the laughs, the wins, and everything in between. He claims he’s a University of Arizona fan, but deep down we all know he bleeds ASU. Trevor’s grateful to call him not just a friend, but a brother — and couldn’t imagine this day without him standing by his side.
Sahalie Hunt
Bridesmaid
Sahalie was friends with Jamie from the very first moment they met, and it was clear they’d be inseparable. From a shared love of food (especially Din Tai Fung!), shopping, and Harry Styles, to her big heart for animals and thoughtful nature, Sahalie brings joy, laughter, and kindness wherever she goes. Jamie couldn’t imagine celebrating this day without her by her side, sharing in all the love and memories along the way.
Eric Laub
Groomsman
Eric might be Monica’s husband, but he’s become one of Trevor’s closest friends over the years. Whether they’re at Zipps watching the game, talking sports, or grabbing a Coors Light, it’s always a good time. He’s like a brother — easy to hang with, always up for a laugh, and someone Trevor’s grateful to have by his side on the big day.
Lauren Walchli
Bridesmaid
Jamie first met Lauren when Preston and Trevor were living and working together at We‑Ko‑Pa. Since then, they’ve become close friends and have shared in all of life’s milestones — from dinners and wine nights to golf outings and Cabo trips. Jamie couldn’t imagine celebrating this day without Lauren by her side, sharing in the laughter, love, and memories along the way.
Wyland Bewley
Groomsman
Wyland isn’t just Trevor’s brother-in-law — he’s family in every sense of the word. From the moment they met, it was clear they were meant to be brothers. Bonded by their shared love of sports and golf (and maybe a little friendly competition), the two have built an easy friendship filled with laughter and mutual respect. Trevor feels lucky to have Wyland not only as family, but as a lifelong friend — and couldn’t imagine the day without him by his side.
Kaitlyn Vilas
Bridesmaid
Kaitlyn started as a cousin, but over the years she’s become like the little sister Jamie never had. Always down for a good time, she’s been there for late-night talks, car karaoke sessions, shopping sprees, and all the laughs in between. Jamie couldn’t imagine celebrating this day without Kaitlyn by her side, sharing in the joy, fun, and memories that make their bond so special.
Tommy Miller
Groomsman
Tommy is Trevor’s little brother, and from playing video games to cheering on sports together, they’ve shared it all. Filled with the perfect mix of older-brother and little-brother love, Tommy has been there for the laughs, the banter, and all the life milestones along the way. Trevor is proud to call him his brother and grateful to have him standing by his side on this special day.
Linda Usamanont
Mother of the Bride
Linda raised three incredible kids on her own, and through it all, she has been a constant source of love, strength, and guidance. Jamie is so grateful to have such a strong and beautiful mother — someone who leads with kindness, teaches by example, and has always been there through life’s ups and downs. Her unwavering support, warmth, and wisdom have shaped Jamie into the person she is today, and she couldn’t imagine celebrating this special day without her by her side.
Maureen and Jeff Miller
Mother and Father of the Groom
Maureen and Jeff are the proud parents of the groom, Trevor. Married for over three decades, they’ve built a life centered around love, laughter, and family. They’ve always been Trevor’s biggest supporters — cheering him on through every chapter of his life and guiding him with endless patience, wisdom, and warmth. Their love for one another and for their family has been a true example of partnership and commitment, and Trevor feels so grateful to have them by his side as he begins this next chapter with Jamie.
Lola Miller
Goodest Girl
Jamie and Trevor adopted Lola three years ago, and she’s been the heart of their little family ever since. She’s equal parts sweet and sassy — the best girl who knows she’s spoiled (and rightfully so). Whether she’s going on walks, cuddling on the couch, or simply being her adorable self, Lola fills their days with love, laughter, and endless tail wags. Jamie and Trevor couldn’t imagine life without her. Although she won't be present on their special day, she will be there in spirit.