FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP on this website including any guests you will be bringing by May 13th!

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What is a Catholic Wedding Mass?

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It’s a traditional wedding ceremony within the Catholic Church that includes both the celebration of marriage and a full Mass (a worship service with prayers, readings, and Communion).

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How long will the ceremony last?

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Typically about 60–75 minutes, depending on music and readings.

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Do I have to be Catholic to attend?

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Not at all! All are welcome to attend and participate respectfully.

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When should I sit, stand, or kneel?

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You can simply follow the lead of others around you. A program outlining the ceremony will be given day of. Guide: • Stand for prayers, the Gospel reading, and parts of the ceremony • Sit for readings and the homily (sermon) • Kneel during certain prayers if you’re comfortable (this is optional for guests)

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What is the Sign of Peace?

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At one point, guests will briefly greet those around them with a handshake or “peace be with you.” Feel free to participate or simply smile.

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What is Communion, and should I participate?

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Communion is a sacred part of the Catholic Mass where practicing Catholics receive the Eucharist (blessed bread and wine). If you are not Catholic, you are kindly asked to remain seated or come forward with arms crossed over your chest for a blessing (optional).

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Will there be music or singing?

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Yes! Catholic weddings often include hymns or songs. You’re welcome to join in if you feel comfortable.

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Are there responses I’m supposed to say?

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There are call-and-response prayers during Mass. Feel free to participate or simply listen, either is perfectly respectful. A program outlining the ceremony will be given day of.

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Is there anything I should avoid doing?

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Just a few things: • Please silence your phone • Avoid taking photos during the ceremony unless told otherwise • Refrain from receiving Communion if you are not Catholic

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What makes this ceremony special?

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A Catholic wedding Mass is not just a legal union, but a sacrament, a sacred covenant believed to be blessed by God, witnessed by family and friends.

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What should I wear?

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Attire is semi-casual to semi-formal, florals and colors encouraged. Out of respect for the church, we recommend modest and respectful clothing.

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What if I am unfamiliar with Catholic traditions?

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That’s completely okay! Just relax and take it in, your presence means the most to us. If you feel so inclined, here is a video that briefly explains what to expect at a normal Catholic Mass. https://youtu.be/4w_SSRtCdUw?si=jWczqKvJisgHNSke