We kindly request your RSVP no later than September 17th, 2025. We wish we could welcome everyone last minute, but our vendors require a set head count in advance. If we don’t receive your RSVP, we unfortunately won’t be able to accommodate you. Please help us avoid any awkward moments—RSVP on time so we can celebrate properly together!
We’re kicking things off with a pre-ceremony cocktail hour from 4:00–5:30 PM—come early, grab a drink, and settle in! Please arrive no later than 5:00 PM so you don’t miss a thing. The ceremony will begin shortly after, and we can’t wait to see your smiling faces there!
"Black-Tie" Attire (Strictly Black) For Women: Please wear all black — either a black floor-length dress or a black cocktail dress. No other colors, please. For Men: Black suits or black sport coats with black slacks, paired with a black necktie or bowtie. A white dress shirt is acceptable. Tuxedos are not required. This is a strictly black dress code. We kindly but firmly ask that no other colors be worn, as this request is part of honoring a few special details woven into the celebration. Your cooperation and attention to this detail means the world to us. Anyone wearing colors may be asked to refrain from joining group photos or participating in certain parts of the event. Thank you so much for understanding and helping us bring our vision to life—we can't wait to celebrate with you!
We love your little ones—but this wedding is an adults-only affair. We kindly ask that you make arrangements for a child-free evening so everyone can relax, celebrate, and enjoy the night to the fullest.
As much as we’d love to celebrate with everyone, we’re keeping things intimate and are only able to accommodate the guests listed on the invitation. We hope you understand and know how excited we are to celebrate with you!
On the day of the wedding, should any urgent questions arise, please use the contact information provided below. The bride and groom will be fully present celebrating and unable to take calls. We sincerely appreciate your understanding and we look forward to sharing this special day together. Patricia Posten | MOB: 607-481-9210 Deborah Rohde | MOG: 607-857-6485 Danielle Patterson | 724-234-7044 Courtney Loudenslager | 607-207-5884 Hannah Aspenwall | WC: 607-425-1833