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The Wedding Website of Jamie Tamkin and Etai Bernstein
Here's what to expect during our wedding weekend. We look forward to celebrating with you at The Alisal!

Friday, October 16, 2026

THE FRIDAY FORE! 9-HOLE GOLF TOURNAMENT

8:00 am

Ranch Course at the Alisal Guest Ranch & Resort
1054 Alisal Road, Solvang, CA 93463

Hit the links before we walk down the aisle! A casual, 9-hole golf tournament for anyone looking to squeeze in some fairway time before the weekend's celebrations get into full swing. Whether you’re aiming for a hole-in-one or just trying to stay out of the sand traps, all skill levels are welcome. The Details: Cost: $195 per player (includes your green fee and cart rental). Clubs: Feel free to bring your own set, or rentals are available through the pro shop for $50. Spaces and tee times are limited, so please RSVP to secure your spot in the lineup. Dust off your clubs and come play a round with us!

TRAIL RIDE WITH THE BRIDE

9:00 am - 10:00 am

Alisal Ranch
Solvang, CA 93463

Saddle up! Join the bride-to-be for a scenic, morning trail ride through the beautiful ranch landscape. This will be a relaxed, beginner-friendly ride lasting about one hour—perfect for taking in the views, sharing some laughs, and kicking off the weekend celebrations in true ranch style. Whether you're an experienced rider or it's your very first time in a saddle, you'll be in great company. The Details: Cost: $200 per rider Experience Level: Beginner-friendly. Duration: 1 hour. Spaces on the trail are limited, so please RSVP to secure your horse and spot in the group. We can't wait to hit the trails with you!

PICKLEBALL WITH THE PARENTS

11:00 am - 12:30 pm

Alisal Ranch
Solvang, CA 93463

Meet us at the Alisal Pickleball Courts Get ready to serve up some fun before the main event! Join the parents for a casual, high-energy morning of pickleball. Whether you're a seasoned pro looking to dominate the kitchen or a total beginner just trying to keep the ball in play, all skill levels (and cheering squads) are welcome. Space is limited, so please RSVP by so we can save you a court spot and ensure we have enough paddles for everyone. We can't wait to see you out there!

J&E's LAST RODEO

5:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Alisal Ranch
Solvang, CA 93463

Dust off your favorite boots and join us for an unforgettable evening under the stars. We’re starting the night with the ultimate ranch experience—a live, private rodeo show featuring incredible local riders. Afterward, we’ll head over to enjoy a classic, mouthwatering BBQ dinner complete with all the fixings, local wines, and great company. It’s going to be a high-energy, fun-filled night, and we can’t wait to welcome everyone to the ranch in style.

Saturday, October 17, 2026

BERNSTEIN WEDDING

4:15 pm

The big moment is here! We can’t wait to celebrate with you. Our ceremony location is tucked away on the property, so all guests will be transported via private hay wagons. Wagons will depart promptly at 4:15 PM from the flag pole at the main hotel entrance, so please arrive a few minutes early to grab your seat. You won't want to miss the ride! Following the ceremony, the wagons will bring us back to the hotel main lawn for a beautiful evening of dinner and dancing under the stars. A Quick Note on Weather: Once the sun goes down, the ranch breeze can get quite chilly! Please don't forget to bring a jacket, shawl, or something warm to keep you cozy while we celebrate into the night.

Sunday, October 18, 2026

FAREWELL BRUNCH

9:00 am - 11:00 am

Before you head home, join us for a casual bite to eat so we can hug you goodbye and thank you for making our weekend so special. No need to dress up—this is a strict "come as you are" situation. Swing by for some coffee, breakfast favorites, and one last chat before hitting the road.