FAQs
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You are not having a traditional, American wedding?
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Nope! We are having an Eastern Orthodox wedding ceremony that reflects our faith!
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What goes on in an Eastern Orthodox wedding ceremony?
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There are two distinct ceremonies that take place during our time in the church: the Betrothal Ceremony and the Crowning Ceremony. The wedding begins in a way that may feel familiar to many. The groom will be waiting at the altar as the wedding party processes down the aisle, followed by the bride, who will be escorted by her father. Instead of the traditional “Here Comes the Bride,” the entrance will be accompanied by the chanting of psalms. The Betrothal Ceremony then begins. During the Betrothal, the wedding rings are blessed by the priest. The koumbaros then exchanges the rings between the bride’s and groom’s hands three times. This exchange symbolizes the couple’s voluntary commitment to enter into marriage in faith, harmony, truth, and love. After the rings are placed on the couple’s hands, Psalm 128 is sung. The Crowning Ceremony is longer and forms the heart of the Orthodox wedding service. The bride and groom are given candles to hold, reminding us that Christ is the Light of the world and will guide the couple throughout their life together. After additional prayers, the priest joins the couple’s hands as a sign of their unity. He then blesses and places a crown upon each of their heads. The crowns are connected by a ribbon, further symbolizing their unity in marriage, and the koumbara exchanges the crowns three times. Two Scripture readings follow: Ephesians 5:20–33 and John 2:1–11. The bride and groom then recite the Lord’s Prayer and share wine from a common cup, symbolizing that they will share all things in life—both joys and challenges—together. Next is the Dance of Isaiah, during which the priest, holding the Gospel book, leads the couple around the main table three times while hymns are sung. This joyful procession signifies that the Word of God will guide the couple in their first steps as husband and wife. The ceremony concludes with the removal of the crowns and a final blessing from the priest. And with that the couple is married!
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When should I RSVP?
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As soon as you can!
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Is there a dress code?
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Our wedding ceremony will take place in an Eastern Orthodox church, which we understand and approach as the sacred house of God. In keeping with the reverence of the Church and the traditions of the Orthodox faith, we kindly ask our guests to dress modestly and respectfully for the ceremony. Attire that covers the shoulders and knees is greatly appreciated, and we ask that very revealing clothing be avoided. This helps preserve the prayerful atmosphere of the church and honors the spiritual significance of the sacrament of marriage. We are deeply grateful to everyone who will be joining us on this important day and thank you for your understanding, respect, and love as we seek to begin our married life centered in Christ and the Church
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Is the wedding indoor or outdoor?
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The ceremony and reception will both be indoors. No need to worry about the weather!
