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Alyssa & James

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Are children welcome?

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While we love all of your little ones, we hope you appreciate that we have decided to make our wedding an adults only event. Treat our day as a parents night out!

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Can I bring a guest?

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We want to share our special day with those we love most. With that being said, your invitation will indicate whether a plus one has been allocated to you and will pop up when you go to RSVP.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We ask that you show 20-30 minutes before the ceremony. If you arrive after the ceremony has begun, we ask that you watch from afar and do not disrupt the ceremony.

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Is there a dress code?

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We'd love to see our friends and family get dressed up for our big day. Dress code is cocktail/semi formal. Please avoid wearing whites, cream, ivory, or beige out of respect for the bride. No jeans please!

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Is there parking for the ceremony & reception?

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The ceremony and reception are being held on the same grounds. There is a gravel lot outside the reception building. We ask that no one parks in the grass. Your safety is important to us, so cars can be left overnight but must be picked up the following morning.

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Do I have to RSVP?

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Yes, RSVPs are required. You can do so under the RSVP tab. It is important to get an accurate count for our vendors and for seating purposes. We ask that you RSVP by May 14th. Although we would love to celebrate with you, if we do not get an answer back by the provided date, you will unfortunately be marked as "not attending."

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony, so we ask that all phones be silenced/turned off during the ceremony. We've hired a professional to capture some of the most important moments of our lives and would hate to have a well-meaning person's phone blocking that moment for her to capture. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos as you want! We promise to share the ceremony photos as soon as we get them back.

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