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October 24, 2026
Lancaster, PA
#HeadOverHeelsForTheONeills

A&J

FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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Dress code: Formal We kindly ask guests to dress in formal attire for our celebration. Women are encouraged to wear mid- to floor-length gowns, and men are encouraged to wear a suit and tie.

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Are kids welcome?

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We respectfully request no children, allowing all of our guests to enjoy an adults-only evening.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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To ensure we can accommodate all our beloved guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. Thank you for understanding!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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We recommend utilizing ridesharing services for optimal convenience, especially if you plan to enjoy our cocktail hour and reception. Limited on-site parking is available for those who prefer to drive. If you do bring your vehicle, please be sure to retrieve it before 10am the following morning.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that guests put away their cameras and be fully present during the ceremony. By unplugging, you'll help us create a more intimate and meaningful experience while ensuring our professional photographers can capture every precious moment without distractions.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will start at 4:30pm. Please arrive 15 minutes before the ceremony to get settled.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?

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Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for details of our hotel block.

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Will there be alcohol?

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DUH! We will have an open bar for all of our guests to enjoy!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, we can accommodate most food allergies. Please notify us of any dietary restrictions with your RSVP.