We love your kids- we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! This will be an adults-only wedding. Thank you for understanding.
It will be on your invitation. If it doesn't say "plus one" or have the name of your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend, the invitation is for you only. We will obviously invite everyone's spouse or longtime boy/girl friend. We have limited space and wanted to be able to invite as many friends and family members that we could.