Please RSVP no later than September 25th, 2025! The ability to RSVP on the website will be made available once wedding invitations have been mailed.
Due to the limited number of guests invited to our wedding, we have not reserved a block of rooms at any hotel. There are several hotels in Oxford, which we have listed on our travel page. There will not be a football game the weekend of our wedding, but we still encourage you to book a room as early as you can!
If you have lost the wedding invitation or need the address, please feel free to contact the grooms directly!
It is about a 12 minute drive from Oxford's main Square to our wedding venue. Oxford is a college town so there are several rentable forms of transportation! We recommend using Uber or carpooling with another guest.
There is a limited amount of parking at the venue. We recommend taking an Uber or carpooling, if possible! However, please feel free to drive if that is your preference.
Our wedding is formal dress. This is a fall wedding with a fairly muted color palette. Please refrain from wearing any bright or flashy colors. Thanks! Our wedding ceremony will be held outdoors (unless it rains), so please be mindful of this as you are considering what to wear. October in Oxford is usually pretty mild, but depending on the year it could lean hot or cold. Check the forecast! The reception will be held indoors.
Only those addressed in your invitation are welcome at the wedding. While we have so many people that we love, we have opted for a more intimate and personal wedding and are excited to celebrate with those who can make it!
Our wedding ceremony will include a moment where all guest are invited to participate in communion. The communion will be carried out with wine and bread, with non-alcoholic/gluten free options for those who need it. If you do not wish to partake in communion, you are still invited to come to the altar and receive a blessing!
We have envisioned our reception as an evening dinner party with friends! With that in mind, there will not be dancing at our reception. Many of the other traditional elements will be present, but ultimately we hope this will be a time for us to connect with you, you to connect with others, and all of us to enjoy a really great meal!
There will be alcohol, so please remember to drink responsibly! If you drive to the wedding, but need to Uber home, your car can remain at the venue until 11am on Sunday morning.
Our wedding registry is one of the pages on this website! Several of the gifts can be bought directly through Zola. Some gift links will direct you to an external page where you can purchase the gift, but please remember to mark the gift as purchased on our registry! There are also funds for our honeymoon and specific experiences we're looking forward to. Feel free to buy a gift, to go in on a gift with other people, to contribute any amount of money, or to just celebrate us with your presence!
Please refrain from using your phones to take photos during the ceremony or reception. We have hired a very talented photographer to capture the day, and we will be excited to share their photos with you afterward!