FAQs
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Where can we RSVP?
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You can RSVP through the tab on our wedding website at any time. Type in your name and it will bring up everybody in your party. Even if you are not able to attend, please RSVP "No" so we can get an accurate headcount. Please RSVP by September 25th 2025. If you prefer, you can mail back the RSVP card in your invitation.
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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
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Due to restrictions of the venue, we can only accommodate those who are listed on the invitation. We would love to keep our wedding an intimate event with close friends and family. Thank you for understanding!
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Are children allowed at the wedding?
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While we love all of the kids in our lives, we please ask that you find a sitter for young children. Please enjoy a date night on us!
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Where is the wedding being held and how do I get there?
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The wedding will be held at the Skylands Manor in the New Jersey Botanical Garden at 5 Morris Road, Ringwood New Jersey. When you arrive, drive through the two eagle statues, pass the welcome booth, and follow the signs.
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Where can we park?
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There will be complimentary valet parking at the event. Please disregard the parking lot you'll see on your left when you first pass the welcome booth. Rather, continue straight and drive directly up to the manor when you arrive and an attendant will park your car.
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What time should we arrive?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4 pm. Please arrive 30 minutes early to enjoy a pre-ceremony beverage, mingle, and find your seats.
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Are there overnight accommodations for out of town guests?
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A block of rooms has been reserved for family and friends at The Fairfield Inn and Suites by Mariott in Mahwah. You can book your stay through the Travel tab on our wedding website. The room block is reserved under the DeSensi/Duhamel wedding. We have reserved rooms for both Wednesday and Thursday night, for those who choose to come in the day before or the day of. If you plan on booking a room at the hotel, please do so before October 5th, 2025.
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Will there be any sort of shuttle service?
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Yes, for those who are staying at the Fairfield Inn, there will be a shuttle to and from the venue. The shuttle will depart from the hotel at 3 pm. There will be two shuttles back to the hotel, at 9 pm and 10 pm.
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Where will the Reception be held?
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The welcome party, ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all be held on location at the Skylands Manor and will be immediately following each other. No need to travel elsewhere for the event.
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Will the wedding be held indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony will be held outside in the botanical garden, weather permitting. The cocktail hour and reception will be inside the manor.
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What is the dress code?
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We would love to see our friends and family dressed up for our big day! Please come dressed in formal attire. We suggest that men wear a suit in any color and women wear a long or midi length dress or a nice pantsuit. Please note that the wedding party will be wearing floor length gowns and tuxedos, and the wedding party color is cabernet.
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Where do I give my entree selection?
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Our venue does not require us to give an entree selection ahead of time. You will make your selection the day of at the reception!
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I have a dietary restriction, how can I let you know about it?
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When you RSVP on our wedding website, there will be a box where you can type in any dietary restriction that you may have. If you are RSVPing by mail, please see the line on the RSVP card included in your invitation that asks for your dietary restrictions.
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What is the bar situation?
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There will be an open bar during the cocktail hour and reception!
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What time will your wedding reception end?
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The reception will be over at 10 pm.
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Are we allowed to take photos at the wedding?
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There will be a designated time for photos at the beginning of the ceremony. Photos during the ceremony from your seat are welcome, but we please ask that you are mindful of the professional photographers and videographer and please stay out of the aisle.
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Are there any breakfast options for the next morning?
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Yes, for those spending the night at the Fairfield Inn and Suites by Marriott, there will be a complimentary hot breakfast buffet from 6:30-9:30 am. Alternatively, if you would like, you may join us back at the Manor in the morning for breakfast. Breakfast will be from 8-10 am at the Manor.
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Do I need to RSVP for breakfast?
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We please ask that you RSVP for breakfast if you are joining us back at the Manor. If you plan to have breakfast at the hotel, please answer No when you RSVP through the website. Only RSVP Yes if you will be returning to the Manor the next morning.