FAQs
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Will dinner be served?
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We'll be serving light passed hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour, followed by dinner and dessert. Come hungry!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Heck yes, there will be a hosted open bar with non-alcoholic beverages, beer, wine, and signature drinks! I mean, come on, we can't have all these guests flying in from far and wide only to make them pay for their own drinks. That would be a party foul of epic proportions! So rest assured, my friend, the beverages are on us – bottoms up! 🍹🥂
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Will there be any activities?
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Yes, we will have lawn games available during cocktail hour and the reception. We will also have a live DJ for the reception, so get your dancing shoes ready!
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Is there a dress code?
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Why, yes, indeed! We're going for a dressy casual vibe for our celebration at VanLandingham Estate. Think cocktail attire meets relaxed elegance. Ladies, feel free to rock those flowy maxi dresses, chic jumpsuits, or elegant separates. Gents, go for a sharp button-down shirt paired with dress pants or chinos, complemented by a sport coat if you're feeling fancy. And of course, don't forget to add your own personal flair to make the attire uniquely yours! Let's show up looking fabulous together! As you consider shoes, the ceremony will be on the grass.
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What are your wedding colors?
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Spring colors like dark teal, gold, light pink, eggplant, creams, yellows, and sage green.
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Why is your wedding on a Monday?
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We decided to have our wedding on a Monday at VanLandingham Estate for a couple of reasons. Firstly, we found that it was more cost-effective and allowed us to have the celebration we dreamed of within our budget. Additionally, having a weekday wedding gives our guests a great excuse to extend their weekend and spend some extra time with us. Plus, who says you can't kick off the week with a little love and festivity? So, mark your calendars for a magical Monday celebration – we promise it'll be worth taking a day off for!
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How should I get to the ceremony/reception location?
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To get to our ceremony and reception location at VanLandingham Estate, we recommend renting a car, especially if you want the freedom to explore the area at your own pace. The airport is about 15 minutes away, and having a car will make your journey more convenient. But don't worry if you prefer not to drive – Uber is also a reliable option that can bring you directly to the venue. So whether you choose to hit the road in your own wheels or summon a ride with a tap of your phone, we've got you covered for a smooth and hassle-free arrival!
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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If you're looking for a place to stay that's less "stuffy hotel", then the brand-new Moxy Charlotte Uptown is calling your name! Imagine this: you check in not at some boring front desk, but at a vibrant rooftop bar with a complimentary welcome cocktail in hand! That's how they roll at the Moxy, which just swung open its doors in July 2025. It's super convenient too, less than 3 miles from our ceremony and reception venue, and smack dab in the heart of Charlotte's hottest Uptown attractions, restaurants, and nightlife. Plus, there's a special discounted rate of just $189 per night for our guests. Just be sure to book by March 1, 2026, or you might miss out on this blend of convenience, comfort, and pure coolness! Look under the “travel” tab for more details.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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We recommend that guests arrive 15 minutes or so before the official ceremony start time so they can get settled before the proceedings.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes. The ceremony and reception will be at the same location at VanLandingham Estate. Parking is free.
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Are you registered? Where?
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Your presence is present enough, but should you wish to buy a gift we have a honeymoon registry. Please look under the "registry" tab on our website.