FAQs

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When should I RSVP?

Answer

We have not sent out formal invitations yet. Once we do, please finalize your RSVP by April 23, 2026.

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What is the dress code?

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Our dress code is semi-formal - think “Sunday best”! We know dress codes can be confusing, so if you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to reach out to Nicole.

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Can I bring my kids?

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Invitations are addressed to specific guests. While we love your little ones, we’ve decided to keep our celebration adults-only, with the exception of children in our immediate families. Thank you so much for understanding!

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Invitations are addressed to specific guests. Unfortunately, we are not able to extend plus-ones to all guests, so please only bring a guest if your invitation specifically says so. Thank you for understanding!

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Is parking available at the venue?

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St. John has a small parking lot at the front of the building. Additionally, the Oklahoma State parking lot on the south side of Boone Pickens Stadium, just west of St. John, is free on weekends, so you’re welcome to park there as well.

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Where is the ceremony vs. reception?

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Both the ceremony and reception will take place indoors at the St. John Catholic Student Center, so you will not need to travel between venues.

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What time does the ceremony start?

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Please see the "Schedule" tab for the wedding venue address and ceremony/reception time.

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Where should I stay?

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We have booked courtesy blocks for 3 different hotels in Stillwater. There are numerous hotels and AirBnbs in the area. See "Travel" page for more info.