Yes, at the wedding and reception. The reception will have a glass of Chardonnay for a toast, but otherwise will be a dry event. The after party will have an open bar, so I do not suggest children being a part of the celebration at that point in the evening.
Yes, but please be considerate of possible medical conditions of family and friends (pregnancy, asthma, etc.) and step away from the main event to do so. Vapes without a strong scent should be fine. Smoking is allowed during the after party.
Gifts are not at all expected or required—our gift is you being part of our special day! If you feel the need to purchase or make a gift, please mail them to us; we do not plan to have a specific area for gifts at the event.