FAQs

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WHEN SHOULD I RSVP BY?

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Please let us know your plans by August 01.

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IS THERE A SHUTTLE TO AND FROM THE HOTELS TO THE CEREMONY?

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Transportation will not be provided, but the venue is fairly close to anywhere you choose to stay in Fayetteville.

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ARE CHILDREN ALLOWED?

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We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! With that being said, the only children invited are those in the wedding party or otherwise explicitly invited on the invitation. We have a list of trusted babysitters that you can take advantage of for the night. Please contact Portia for more info.

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WHEN SHOULD WE ARRIVE FOR THE WEDDING?

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The ceremony will start promptly at 3pm, and the doors will be locked at 3pm. Please arrive anywhere between 230-245. If you miss the wedding, then you are more than welcome to still attend the reception as long as your name is on the guest list.

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CAN I BRING A DATE?

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We apologize, we only have accommodations for those invited. So if your invitation says, 'Plus One' then yes (please add them to your RSVP), but if it does not, we would prefer if it were only you.

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WHAT’S THE DRESS CODE?

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Black Tie (optional)| But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, then do what you have to do! Please, no jeans, no sandals or 'street wear.'

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ARE PICTURES ALLOWED DURING THE CEREMONY?

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We ask that during the ceremony ONLY, please, no pictures. We want our photographers to be able to capture every special moment.

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WILL THERE BE DANCING, AND ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGE OPTIONS?

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YES!!! There will be a cash bar. There is also an option to use your credit or debit card for purchases over $25. With that being said, If dancing and drinking offends you, we ask that you reconsider attending our wedding as we don't want to offend anyone.

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PICTURE TAKING?

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Please take as many pictures as you want before the ceremony, and definitely during the reception. Please download #TheGuest app and use the code 'ITSABAINTHING'. Instead of sending pictures one by one, or having to save every picture from social media, this app allows everyone who has access to see every picture that our guests will take while at the ceremony, live, in real time, all in the convenience of one app.

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I CAN'T FIND MY NAME! WHAT DO I DO?

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Don't panic! We may have misspelled your name. Just send us a text message or a RSVP request here on the website and we will help you get squared away!