FAQs

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I would like to wear Indian attire to the wedding. Where do I start?

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While there is no obligation to purchase a new outfit for our wedding (Western clothing is welcome!), we have had a few people express interest in purchasing traditional Indian attire. Colorful clothing is always welcome at an Indian wedding. Red is usually reserved for the bride. Women generally wear traditional sarees, lehenga cholis (cropped tops with long skirts), or anarkalis (long dresses). Men generally wear sherwanis or kurta-pyjamas (top and pants). Below, we have listed some websites that people have found helpful in the past. If you run in to issues with obtaining your measurements for Indian clothing, there are several helpful videos on YouTube to help with this. Please be mindful that some stores might require measurements in centimeters rather than in inches, so it's always a good idea to clarify. WEBSITES: There are a few online resources : • Lashkaraa - www.lashkaraa.com (Affordable & stylish options for Women) • cbazaar - www.cbazaar.com com (Affordable options for Men and Women) • Panash - www.panashindia.com (Affordable options for Men) • WeWearUs - wewearus.com (Rental Only) Etsy or Amazon: search "Indian Clothing" or "Indian Attire"

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When should I RSVP by?

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Before June 12th, 2025.

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What are some of the traditions/customs to expect at an Indian wedding?

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Indian weddings are powerful, meaningful events filled with traditions and customs that signify various parts of marriage. These customs not only celebrate the union between bride and groom, but also the union between two families. Some customs are more emotional, such as the Vidaai ceremony at the conclusion of the wedding, which signifies the daughter leaving her parents' home behind to spend her life with her husband. Other traditions are more happy and playful, such as the game of Jutha Chupai, where the bride's family takes the groom's shoes hostage in exchange for a handsome fee. All of these traditions have been passed down through generations and are part of what makes an Indian wedding ceremony unique and beautiful. We have found that this website is very helpful at explaining the basics, and we invite you to explore some of these traditions more! https://www.linandjirsa.com/category/indian-wedding-guide/

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Is there a gift registry?

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Your loving presence and blessings at our wedding are all we wish for. Additionally, having been together for so long, we have amassed everything we could possibly need for our home. As such, we kindly request no boxed gifts. Thank you!

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What type of food will be available at your wedding?

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All Indian food will be served buffet style. If you have any specific allergies or food-related questions, please reach out and let us know!