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Josh and I agreed to meet up at park close to the both of us in may, I would later learn was his birthday, to josh bringing a whole picnic luncheon. He had of course first covered the table in a red blanket, pulling out sandwiches for us both, a soup from a a medium cooler, along with bread and butter for the soup, tea in a large dispenser that kept it warm, and a lavender cake from a recipe he had noticed I reposted on Facebook. Josh had saved the recipe and made the amazing lavender cake following it topping it with a light drizzle of icing. Between the conversation and his effort in the food for our first date we ended up talking for hours at that park about everything and anything. He let me leave with the lavender cake on a plate of his, next time we meet up I had baked brownies to serve on the plate to return it him. Even though josh has given up sweets on and off he always knows how I love brownies and will cook them for me constantly, while the lavender cake was so difficult for him to make for our first date, he finds a nice box of dark chocolate brownies to be a bit easier for him. He states now my baking and cooking is overall better than his, but I will always cherish him coming to our first date with the dishes he felt the most confident in and honestly were all delicious no matter how much he talked down about his own cooking.

At our wedding, you will notice a memorial table with pictures of people we have both lost before this big day in our lives. Some picture may have items near them that in life meant a lot to the individual it’s close too and we please ask that this table be observed and to not be touched. For the couple the pictures displayed of the ones passed is a sentimental remembrance of how those that can’t be there for the wedding day, Even if one of us never got to meet the person that passed, we recognize the importance and influence that individual made on the bride and groom. We want to honor them and invite them to join in the celebration by having pictures displayed. For the Bride she will have her father, Michael George Wiglesworth the 3rd, her grandfather Michael George Wiglesworth the 2nd along with his twin brother her Great Uncle Mitch Wiglesworth, on her fathers mother side her Great Uncle Micheal Spears and her cousin James king. Her maternal grandparents Arthur and Diane Goodrich, and maternal cousin Melanie Caissie. For the groom