FAQs
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What if I don’t RSVP?
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To help with planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by the date provided on your formal invitation, April 23, 2024. If you are having trouble RSVP-ing, please contact the bride or groom. Unfortunately, if we do not receive your RSVP by the deadline noted on the invitation, we will have to mark you as "not attending." We will miss celebrating with you, but we do need to finalize the guest count for the venue and our vendors. We hope you understand!
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Are kids allowed?
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While we love the littles, we’re looking forward to letting loose and having a rambunctious time with our guests! Due to this, we’re requesting our guests do not bring children under the age of 12. We won’t have meals to accommodate them and the venue has an open pond that can be unsafe for children.
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Can I bring an extra guest?
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We respectfully request that guests only bring a +1 if they have been invited on the invitation that was mailed to you. This goes for children as well - if they are not included on your RSVP card, we unfortunately do not have the space to accommodate them. Thank you for your understanding.
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Transportation?
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There are limited Ubers to be had in Montgomery NY. We will have a shuttle service at the beginning and end of the evening to take our guests safely back to the Residence Inn hotel (57 Tower Dr). If you choose to book elsewhere, you’ll need to either drive to the venue (parking is available) or Uber.
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Can we take Photo and Video?
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We ask that all of our guests go “unplugged” for our ceremony. We don’t want phones and flashes ruining our professional photos! We have a professional photographer and we will be thrilled to send photos to our guests after the wedding. For the reception, you’re welcome to snap whatever photos you like!
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What should I wear?
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We’re asking that everyone please leave your jeans and crocs at home and come dressed to impress! The attire is billed as formal or cocktail attire! The wedding party colors are a dark dusky blue, a light dusky blue, and gold so we ask our guests to steer away from these specific colors. The ceremony will take place on the grass (weather permitting) and it will likely be warm so please keep that in mind when planning your outfit!
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We’re coming from out of town, where do we stay?
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There are two hotels nearby that were recommended by the venue: Residence Inn by Marriott Middletown Goshen Home2 Suites by Hilton Middletown You can find our hotel block link for the Marriot on our Travel page.
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Is there an open bar?
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Hell yes! We will provide an open bar from 5 pm until 10 pm at The Venue. Afterwards, we will head to the Marriot to continue the fun at their cash bar. Please plan your travel accordingly - we want all of our guests to be safe!
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What should I get the happy couple? 🎁
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You can find our registry on our “Registry” webpage! Instead of physical gifts, we’re requesting contributions for our honeymoon, a Mediterranean cruise which departs July 3 out of Athens, Greece!
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Is there an after party?
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Yes!! The party doesn’t stop at 10. We invite our friends and family to join us for a cash bar at the Residence Inn by Marriot from 11 pm until final call (2 am, or whenever you get tired).