FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by September 15th.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! Please see the 'Travel' section of this website.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive by 5:00 in the afternoon on Friday, October 6th.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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#gettingwizzywithit

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What does black tie mean to you?

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Please see this (edited for length) excerpt from an article in Town & Country: How to approach Black Tie: The first answer, is what does black tie mean to your host, what does it look like to them? Always be mindful of your hosts’ desires and anticipate what their vision is for their dinner, dance, fundraiser, wedding, whatever. Accepting an invitation is entering into a social contract in which the guest agrees to give as much, if not more, than they take from their host. This includes what you wear.”- William Norwich Ladies: Wear a long formal gown or a shorter fancy cocktail dress that is black tie appropriate. Gentlemen: There's really nothing as sophisticated as a man in classic black tie. He should wear a dinner jacket (also known as a tuxedo jacket) and matching trousers, bow tie, and black patent-leather or calfskin pumps or laced oxfords.