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Note: We recommend booking a hotel room as soon as possible- see travel tab for more information
Note: We recommend booking a hotel room as soon as possible- see travel tab for more information
September 12, 2026
Watertown, WI

FAQs

The Wedding Website of Sarah Heyer and Isaac Wienkes
All the questions you might be wondering and even the one's you didn't think to ask. The website will be continuously updated so check back later if the information you're looking for isn't listed yet! Also make sure to check out the other sections of our website.
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When do I need to RSVP by and what should I do if I cannot attend?

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Please visit the RSVP tab to respond no later than August 15th. If you cannot attend, we will miss you! Please still RSVP accordingly by August 15th.

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Why Watertown?

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With Sarah’s family from Southeast WI and Isaac’s from Southwest WI, Watertown felt like a good “middle ground” for most, while also checking so many of the boxes we were hoping for in a venue. We love its family-owned feel being run by a wonderful husband and wife team, and so many more elements that felt like the perfect fit for us. We hope you’ll love it as much as we do! We truly appreciate everyone making the drive, as we know it isn’t local for most, and it means so much to us that you’re willing to travel to celebrate alongside us.

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Can I bring a guest/date?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one they will appear under your name when you RSVP and the invite is exclusive to the named person only unless otherwise stated. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, we have elected to have an adult only wedding.

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Is there a dress code?

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We kindly ask guests to wear semi-formal attire. Dresses, jumpsuits, suits, or dress pants with a collared shirt are all appropriate. Ties are optional. Please no jeans, athletic wear, or other casual clothing. For your awareness, the bridesmaids will be wearing shades of brown and the groom and groomsmen will be in tan suits. While not required, guests may wish to keep these colors in mind when selecting attire. We also kindly ask that women refrain from wearing white.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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Once the ceremony begins we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We would like everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographers to be able to capture the best photos which we will share with you all! Once the ceremony is over feel free to take as many photos as you'd like and don't forget to share them with us!

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Will dinner seating be assigned?

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Seating will be assigned for dinner and we have worked hard to ensure you are seated comfortably and surrounded by good company wherever you turn!

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I have a food allergy or alternative diet, can I make a special request?

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Please notify the bride or groom of any necessary accommodations including vegetarian requirements as soon as possible on your RSVP so we can notify our caterer.

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Is the venue wheelchair and walker accessible?

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Please let Isaac or Sarah know if you have any accessibility needs that we may not be aware of so we can assist in accommodating as able. Just a note- the bathroom is only accessible by going up three steps.

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When and where is the wedding?

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Please check the schedule tab for an overview of the timeline. The schedule will also be listed on your formal invitation. Both the ceremony and reception will be held at Bennett Barn in Watertown, WI

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Will there be a shuttle?

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There will be a shuttle running to and from both hotels listed under the travel tab. Further details to be shared when finalized.

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If I am driving, where do I park?

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There will be ample parking available at the Bennett Barn. If needed cars may be left overnight with pick up by no later than 10:00am the next day. PLEASE utilize our provided shuttle if you choose to drink.

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I have a question about the wedding the week of the wedding or the day of, who do I contact?

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Respectfully..... anyone other than the bride & groom. To allow us to fully enjoy our big day with each other and all of our guests please direct questions to any of our wonderful wedding party.