June 2019, I had been in Europe celebrating my birthday all week when one day I received a facebook message while out sightseeing. I casually opened the message to see the name Inglish Martin, the lady's attention I had previously been trying to get just weeks prior by liking and commenting on a couple of her post. Upon reading her message, my soul lit up with excitement, like wow my plan actually worked because I wasn't throwing out anymore hints that I was interested. HAHAHA. Her message, or paragraph should I say, was straight to the point. I wasn't able to reply for a couple of days until I returned to NY and all I could remember thinking was "damn, she's going to think I'm ignoring her!" Upon my arrival back into the states, I reached out as soon as I could. We had our first date a week later at Starbucks. We talked for a couple of hours then decided to walk the nearby trail where we sat, walked and talked for another three hours. At the conclusion of our date I left feeling like there was definitely something great that may stem from this. "She definitely isn't as boogie and stuck up as I thought she may be!!" lol The rest is history!

The Infamous DM Message: "Good Morning, I hope and pray this comes off well. I’m attracted to you! I would love the opportunity to open the lines of communication if possible. Please disregard my message if you're in a relationship . Hope you're enjoying your vacation."