Absolutely! We'll make room for your whole family if you need it.
We have invited roughly 70 guests and expect a turnout of 50 at least.
Sure! Contact Inali - I can help you find a hotel near the venue that is cheapest or works best for you. We want to help fulfill all accommodations so that our guests are happy and safe.
Yes! That is actually encouraged! We will be providing food as well, but all extra food or dishes are welcome.
Maybe! We are still in the process of deciding whether we want to have an open bar or any extra alcohol products at the reception. We're leaning more towards a yes, though! And there will definitely be beer!
July 22nd, 2024 is the latest date we will be accepting RSVPs.
By 6:00 pm!
Yes! Aside from the ceremony, reception, and after party, we are also planning a bachelor party, bachelorette party, preparation handfasting ritual, and possibly a honeymoon welcome-home party. All of these will include our closest friends and family. We will invite everyone needed when we have those events planned.
Yes! On this website and on Amazon. Both of those links should be under the Registry button on the top of the page, but if you want a link to our registries alone or want to ask about other gifts you might want to get us, feel free to contact us.
We are ordering paper invitations if you would like a pretty, white lace, formal invitation to keep. We also have digital and paper Save-the-Dates readily available if you would like one of those too. We love sentiments and want everyone to experience the joy of our wedding with us. We are working on a way for all transportation needs to be met. If you want to come and don't have a ride or the means of getting it, we will hopefully be able to provide a way to the retreat and back. We truly want all of our family and friends to be present to celebrate with us. Contact us and let us know if you need transportation, so that we know how many people we are providing for. Thank you!
We will be creating an event for the wedding on Facebook, emailing guests, sending paper invites to those who don't have internet, and hoping for all RSVPs to be sent before July of 2024. If you don't know that you can make it, or if you know that you cannot, that's okay! We have a lot of love for everyone we've invited and we understand all circumstances. Just decline the RSVP so we know how many people to account for, and we hope we can celebrate some other time with you. We have several memorial seats saved for lost loved ones that we wanted to be at our wedding, likely placed in the front row. We will be asking for a moment of peace in their names directly before the ceremony begins. There will be flowers, photos, and candles for those that we can provide. We do ask everyone's respect for these items and for those that can only be with us in spirit on the happiest day of our lives. There are several rites and practices that we will partake in during the ceremony. We also ask that those practices are respected.
There are three featured funds (wedding, tux, and dress fund) on our registry list, and we would heavily appreciate any contributions towards those funds as they are the most important to us. We will also be posting other ways to pay us or to gift us cash for the wedding soon. DM/text/call us if you have any questions about how you can contribute. Our wedding color scheme will be in white, lavender/purple, red, and black. Our handfasting cord will also be in these colors, and that will be handmade by Inali. We will be using white lilies, white wisteria, dried lavender, and white and purple tulips. There's a listing on our registry for pails that we hope to give out, specifically for throwing rice and also the collection of flower petals for those that want to take some with them. The dress code/attire is casual but we hope to see most colored clothing aligning with our scheme (jeans are completely fine!). We'll also provide boutonnieres.
If anyone has any needs or specific accommodations (we want to be all-inclusive and make sure everyone is happy and comfortable), please get ahold of us and let us know. If there is absolutely anything you or your family needs to attend, don't be afraid to ask! We are very excited to see everyone and make this wedding absolutely perfect. <3