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May 29, 2026
Innsbrook, MO
#idotoiden

10 Years Later…We’re Finally Getting Married!

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FAQs

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we adore your little ones, this will be an adult-only event, with the exception of our children.

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Can i wear an almost all white or cream dress?

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No. Please don’t be that guy.

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What is the dress code?

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Cocktail attire. Ladies: cocktail dresses. Gentlemen: dress shirts and pants, sports coats welcome.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Our wedding guest list is carefully curated to ensure an intimate and meaningful celebration. Your invitation will clearly indicate whether you may bring a guest. Please refer to the specific details on your invitation, and if a plus one is listed, you are welcome to bring them.

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Is this going to be a party or a par-tayyy?

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Par-tayyy, of course! We will be offering an open beer/wine bar, including an assortment of red and white wines, domestic beers, Coca Cola products, coffee, and tea to suit every taste. *Please be kind and tip your bartender. Cash app and Venmo will be available to accommodate * 😉 For those seeking alternative relaxation options, a designated patio adjacent to the reception area will be available for guests who wish to enjoy cannabis, following a bring-your-own policy.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there will be plenty of complimentary parking available in front of the Aspen center. Upon arrival, please let security at the entrance gate know you’re here for The Iden Wedding and follow the signs pointing towards the Aspen center.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue by 4:45 PM. This will give you plenty of time to find your seat, greet other guests, and be comfortably settled before our ceremony begins promptly at 5:00 PM.

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Is the ceremony and reception at the same location?

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Yes, with a convenient transition between venues. The ceremony will take place on the picturesque Lake Aspen waterfront stage, located just behind the Aspen center. Immediately following, the reception will be held in the main Aspen room. We'll provide transportation for guests who may find walking challenging or prefer not to walk the distance to the lake stage. Our friendly "gushers" (girl ushers) will be on hand to guide you and ensure a smooth, enjoyable experience.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?

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Our wedding will take place at Innsbrook Resort, and lodging is available for those who wish to stay on-site! While we are not arranging a formal room block, guests can book directly with Innsbrook Vacations at their convenience. We recommend reserving early, as availability and rates may change. Additionally, several nearby hotels and vacation rentals offer alternative accommodation options for our guests. For more information, visit: http://www.innsbrook-resort.com

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Shoot, I forgot to RSVP! Can i still do it 3 days before the wedding?!

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While we're excited to have you join us, our final guest count must be submitted to our vendors in advance. But if you must, bring a chair and a sandwich.

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Is Dinner Provided?

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Yes! We will be serving: •Marinated flank steak with choice of chimichurri sauce, or a homemade horseradish cream sauce •Cajun chicken pasta •Sautéed Broccolini •Macaroni & cheese •Garlic Bread •Caesar salad There will also be choices of appetizers available during the cocktail hour following the ceremony.