FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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You will be attending not just our wedding, but a Latin Mass in the Extraordinary Form, so reverence is expected, which includes your attire. For the Men: You must look sharp; suits, collared shirts, military uniforms, etc. are all acceptable, but full suits with ties are preferred. For the Women: Wear a dress that goes at least to the knee and is not too low cut (no cleavage please). Please also cover your shoulders with a sweater, shawl, veil, etc. if they are not already covered by your dress. Veils are preferred and strongly encouraged. Please don't wear white or anything close to it!

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Can I bring my kids and/or a plus one?

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We will only be inviting a few kids from our close family. We have invited a lot of people, so not everybody will have a plus one. If we have decided that you can bring your kids or a plus one, we will let you know.

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Can I take pictures of the ceremony?

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No. We will not only have a hired photographer to take photos, but we will also be participating in a mass. We ask that you not only keep your phones away, but that they are completely shut down until we are out of the chapel. It is a matter of respect for the sacrament and reverence for the holy union taking place in the house of God. However, once the ceremony is over and we leave the Chapel, we encourage you to take as many pictures as you'd like!

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I've never been to a Latin Mass! What do I do!?

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There will be English/Latin missals provided by our Ushers before the ceremony begins that you can use to follow along with the mass. If you're having trouble following along or are not Catholic, please feel welcome to just be present in the moment and be respectful. Don't be intimidated! Remember that most in attendance have never been to a Latin Mass either, and nobody knows what to do the first time. We didn't either!

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What do I do when it's time to receive the Eucharist?

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For Catholics: Please go to confession before our wedding so that you may receive the Body of Christ in a state of grace. Two lines will form in the center aisle, which will terminate at the Communion rail in front of the altar, where 5 or so people from each line will kneel on their respective side. Communion will be received on the tongue while kneeling. There will be no need for you to say "Amen" prior to receiving the sacrament. PLEASE BE IN A STATE OF GRACE. If not, either stay in your pew and pray, or cross your arms for a blessing. For Non-Catholics: Please either remain in your pew, or follow everybody else and cross your arms over your chest for a blessing from Father Kodet.

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Where do I sit during the ceremony?

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If you are a guest of the groom: Please sit on the right side of the chapel. If you are a guest of the bride: Please sit on the left side of the chapel. If you are a guest of both: Pick a side!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to be seated in the chapel 15-20 minutes before the ceremony begins, as not to disrupt the bride and the wedding party as they prepare to make their way down the aisle!

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Where do I park at the chapel?

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Parking will be available in the chapel parking lot (including school parking in rear), on Ventura Blvd (the street in front of the chapel), and on S Glenn Dr (west of the chapel, next to Dizdar Park).

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Is the reception venue indoors or outdoors?

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Our venue is mainly indoors, but we also have an outdoor patio.

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Where do I park at the reception?

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There is a parking lot at the reception venue, as well as street parking on Valley Spring Drive, next to the venue.

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Can I leave my car overnight in the reception venue lot?

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Yes! We encourage you to be safe, but mainly, we just don't want you to die on our special night. You can get in an accident the next day, if you wish. *For those of you who were having trouble with this comment, this is a joke.