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RSVP

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Please RSVP by November 4, 2026 using the "RSVP" tab on our website. After this date, we will be unable to accommodate additional guests or changes in dinner choices.

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Dress Code

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The dress code is black tie optional. Ladies: formal cocktail attire is appropriate (long/floor-length dresses and gowns). Gentlemen: black tie is appropriate (tuxedos/dark suits and ties).

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Menu

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Mixed greens salad with shaved parmesan, basil, cucumbers and tomatoes tossed in a light champagne vinaigrette Parmesan crusted baked chicken breast and beef tenderloin steak, butter garlic glaze with yukon smashed garlic potatoes and assorted roasted organic vegetables

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Venue

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Tucked away just 35 minutes outside of Raleigh, The Hartwood in Selma offers a serene and picturesque setting for your wedding day. Nestled among rolling greenery and thoughtfully designed spaces, this charming venue blends modern elegance with timeless Southern character. From its light-filled reception space to its beautiful outdoor ceremony options, The Hartwood is a warm, inviting atmosphere where every detail feels intentional. It’s the perfect place to gather your favorite people, celebrate your love, and make unforgettable memories in a setting that feels both elevated and effortlessly relaxed.