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Here you'll find all the details you need. We'll update this page closer to the date if anything changes! Thanks for all the love and support - we can't wait to celebrate with you! ♡, the Ongs
Here you'll find all the details you need. We'll update this page closer to the date if anything changes! Thanks for all the love and support - we can't wait to celebrate with you! ♡, the Ongs

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FAQs + Things to Know

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the event as soon as possible. However, the deadline is June 22, 2026. If we don't receive your RSVP by this date we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as 'no'. We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, we hope you can understand.

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What time should I arrive?

Answer

Our church ceremony will begin promptly at 2 PM so we kindly request that you arrive 30 minutes early to ensure you don't miss anything. This will also give you time to park and comfortably find a seat.

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited. If you've received a plus one, they'll be specifically addressed under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we ask only the named people in the invitation are in attendance. Thank you for understanding!

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Can I take photos during the church ceremony?

Answer

We ask that you kindly put your cameras/phones away and on silent during the ceremony as we want you all to be present with us in the moment. We have a professional photographer capturing the ceremony for us. Other than the ceremony, yes! Please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you like.

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Are children welcome?

Answer

As much as we love your little ones, our wedding is exclusively for adults, with the exception of immediate family who are part of our wedding party.

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Open or cash bar?

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First drink is on us! Thereafter a cash bar is available for the rest of the evening. The bar accepts cash and card.

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Etiquette

Answer

Feel free to pull an Irish goodbye - we won't be offended! We'll be too busy on the dance floor to notice, and we're just happy you came to celebrate with us.

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A note on gifts

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Your presence at our special day is the greatest gift we could receive! If you'd like to give a gift, we kindly ask that you consider contributing to our honeymoon fund in lieu of traditional registry items. Helping us create lasting memories together would mean the world to us.

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