FAQs
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Do I have to RSVP? Can't I just tell you I'm going to be there (or not)?
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Yep, you have to. For the sake of our sanity, please use the RSVP link at the top. It is far easier for us than dealing with 50 forms of communication for RSVPing. If you are having issues with RSVPing online, please email us at Coxweddingjuly2025@gmail.com
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When & Where do I need to RSVP by?
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You can RSVP on this very website--just look at the top of the screen. Please send us your acceptances or regrets by July 1, 2025.
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What do I do if something changes and I can/can't make it after I have RSVPed?
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We understand things come up. Just email us right away at coxweddingjuly2025@gmail.com so we can make changes.
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Where is the wedding?
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The ceremony will be held at Pleasant Hill House. 9205 Marshall Corner Road, Pomfret, MD 20675 The reception will be at the Waldorf Moose Lodge. 4765 Robert S. Crain Hwy, White Plains, MD 20695
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What should I wear?
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The dress code for our wedding is all black cocktail attire. We suggest men wear a dress shirt with a tie and women wear a midi- or knee-length dress or dressy separates.
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Can I take pictures?
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We hired 2 rather expensive professionals to capture our ceremony, so keep your cameras/phones/iPads tucked away. But during the reception feel free to Instagram the $#!+ out of the newlyweds.
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Do you have a wedding hashtag?
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Yep! Feel free to use #SameCoxForever2025 to help share your night with us and others
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Can I bring a date?
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Unfortunately, there is a limit on the guests we can invite and we cannot accomadate a plus one for everyone. If you are a special case where we have allowed you a plus one, we have listed their/her/his name or "Plus One" on your RSVP profile. If you feel we left out someone important, let us know, but understand that our limitations may mean our hands are tied. Thank you so much for understanding!
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Can I bring my kids?
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This is an adult only occasion so please plan ahead. The only kids in attendance will be those in the wedding party.
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Do you have a gift registry?
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Check out the Registry link at the top of the page for more info.
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A note on the Bar & Cigars
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We’re happy to provide an open bar during the early part of the evening. After that, drinks will be available for purchase at the Moose Lodge’s very affordable bar. As a special touch, we’ve arranged a cigar lounge where each guest is welcome to enjoy a complimentary hand-rolled cigar.
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Wedding Menu- Let's Taco' Bout it!
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We're serving a build-your-own taco bar catered by County Manners! Choose flour or corn tortillas and fill them with smoked chicken, seasoned ground beef, or smoked fish. Toppings include shredded lettuce, pico de gallo, jalapenos, red onion, and cheddar jack cheese, as well as sriracha aioli, adobo peppers, lime juice, and cilantro lime dressing. On the side, enjoy yellow saffron Mexican Rice and a corn and black bean salad. We'll also have salsa and a queso fountain-because we believe in love and melted cheese. Vegitarian-friendly options are available, and you can make it as mild or spicy as you like!
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What if I have a dietary requirement?
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We are having a buffet style dinner, so hopefully everyone will be able to compile a meal that will make them happy. If you have specific concerns or allergies, please don't hesitate to email us at Coxweddingjuly2025@gmail.com and we will confer with our caterer.
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Can I take home centerpieces, decorations, etc?
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No. Some of the decorations are rented or the couple are hoping to reuse. Please only leave our reception with a full belly, and memories of the evening.
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Where can I find the photos afterward?
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We will post them on the wedding website for your viewing.