You can wear what you like, but if you ask us we'll say something semi-formal to formal that is bright/fun/floral. It's a day wedding!
You can get yourself seated up to 20 minutes before the start of the ceremony, around 11:10am.
Both if the weather permits. The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held in the outdoor portion of the venue. Dinner will be served indoors. You will be able to move freely between the indoor and outdoor portions of the venue.
It is at the Mansion at Timber Point in Long Island. The venue shares land with a golf course. It is about a 1 hour to 1 hour and 30 minute drive from New York Penn Station.