FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

We are eager to celebrate together! To best accommodate your presence, we ask you to RSVP by no later than 12:00PM on August 10th, 2026. Reminders will be sent but if we do not hear back by the due date we will consider you as not available to attend.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive at least 30 minutes before start time to find seats and get acquainted. The ceremony begins promptly at 3:00pm and must remain on schedule with the church coordinator.

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Is there a dress code?

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Black tie attire is encouraged. To fit with the fall season and colors for our wedding theme, we suggest vibrant shades of pinks and reds or autumnal colors like orange and green. Women are encouraged to wear long/cocktail length dresses and men are encouraged to wear suits or tuxedos. Jeans are not approved attire at the cathedral as well as at the reception, thank you for understanding. PS: don’t forget to bring your dancing shoes!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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If you have any food allergies please let us know so we can best coordinate with the catering team ahead of time and make appropriate arrangements.

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Am I allowed to bring an additional plus-one?

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We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated. For example, If "and guest" or your plus-one's name is written on your wedding invitation, you can bring someone.

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Am I allowed to bring my children?

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We adore all of the children in our family’s lives, but for our wedding day we’ve chosen to keep the celebration adults only. We hope this gives you the chance to enjoy a fun evening out filled with laughter, dancing, and love. Thank you so much for your understanding, we are so excited to celebrate with you!