Wedding Party
Margaret Rex
Matron of Honor
Maggie is Lillia’s oldest, “twin” sister. She is a constant source of inspiration, support, and laughter in Lillia’s life - on their daily FaceTime calls, annual trips to Disney World, and for every life moment in between. Maggie is mother to Marilla (flower girl) and Lillia and Henry’s godson, James (ring bearer).
Kole Shade
Best Man
Kole and Henry may be cousins, but they’ve been like brothers since day one. From childhood adventures to school days and now into adulthood, they’ve shared countless memories that have shaped who they are today. Through every stage of life, Kole has been by Henry’s side, and he couldn’t imagine this day without Kole standing next to him as best man.
Elizabeth Rentschler
Matron of Honor
Betsy is Lillia’s older sister and her original “life partner.” Lillia and Betsy did everything together growing up, with some their favorite memories including choreographing dance routines, rollerblading around Army posts, and eventually going to Valparaiso University together. Betsy is mother to Harper (flower girl).
Dillon Shaffer
Best Man
Dillion and Henry met in college when they joined the same fraternity, and they have been great friends ever since. Over the years, they’ve shared countless rounds of golf, fishing trips, and hunting adventures. Whether on the course, the water, or in the woods, Dillion is always the guy you want by your side—loyal, dependable, and always up for a good time. Henry is honored to have him as best man on this special day.
Margaret Schaller
Maid of Honor
Maggie is Lillia’s best friend. From being college roommates in 2018 to living in Indianapolis together in 2025, Maggie and Lillia are practically inseparable. Maggie’s quick sense of humor and loyalty make her truly a one-of-a-kind friend, who really is more like family.
Jonathan Rollins
Groomsman
Jon and Henry have been friends since high school, where they played sports together and built a strong bond. Over the years, they’ve experienced a lot of life together, from fun times in college to the great memories they still make today. No matter where life has taken them, they’ve stayed close, and Henry is grateful to have him by his side on his wedding day.
Caroline Smith
Bridesmaid
Caroline is Lillia’s first friend made in Indianapolis - meeting in the Orr Fellowship and now working together. A friendship built on too many TV nights, an Army-Navy rivalry, and annual trips to the Indy 500, Caroline is an irreplaceable part of Lillia’s life.
Jack Lucas
Groomsman
Jack and Henry have been friends since high school, and over the years, they’ve experienced a lot together. From playing sports to navigating life’s ups and downs, he’s been a constant friend through it all. Growing up side by side, they’ve made countless great memories, and Henry is grateful to have him standing with him on his wedding day.
Emma Ryan
Bridesmaid
The moment Lillia and Emma met in Indy was the moment they became friends. Emma is the hostess with the mostest, with a true talent for bringing people together to create amazing memories. She is the ultimate hype-woman, and brings the perfect balance of class and fun everywhere she goes.
Patrick Carver
Groomsman
Pat and Henry met in college through their fraternity and have been great friends ever since. After graduation, they both moved to Indianapolis, where they’ve shared countless fun times and great memories. Henry is grateful for his friendship and excited to have him standing by his side on his wedding day.
Elizabeth Schierbeek
Bridesmaid
Biz and Lillia met in Indianapolis and soon became besties and workout buddies. Biz is a friend who always brightens Lillia’s day with unrivaled bear-hugs and giggles, which are more like cackles. Especially talented in turning laughter into happy tears and turning tears into laughter, she is an amazing friend for every scenario.
Brent Bellen
Groomsman
Brent and Henry met in college when they joined the same fraternity pledge class. After graduation, they both moved to Indianapolis, where they’ve continued to make great memories over the years. Whether it’s been fraternity events, weekends with friends, or just navigating life after college, Brent has always been someone Henry can count on. Henry is grateful for his friendship and honored to have him standing by his side on my wedding day.
Colleen Pogue
Bridesmaid
Colleen is married to Lillia’s older brother, Bill. Her bright and bubbly personality makes her an amazing addition to the Pogue sister crew, bonding over card and board games, and lots of pickleball. She is mother to Laura Grace (flower girl).
Blake Thomas
Groomsman
Blake and Henry have been close friends since high school, and over the years, their friendship has only grown stronger. From the days playing football together to countless fishing trips and other memorable experiences, they have shared many great moments that continue to this day. Henry is truly grateful to have Blake by his side for his wedding and for the lasting friendship they’ve built.
Abigail Stephens
Bridesmaid
Abby is Lillia’s cousin, growing up as practically sisters. She brings the laughter and party everywhere she goes - making everything more fun. With endless memories as little girls, to memories of going to college together, Abby and Lillia have been together through everything.
Isaac Shade
Groomsman
Being Kole’s younger brother, Isaac has always felt like a brother to Henry as well. Over the years, they’ve built a bond that goes beyond family, sharing great memories along the way. Henry is honored to have him by his side and to share this special day with him.