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October 6, 2018
Lawrence, KS
#BBWEDDINGLFK

Jane & Henry

    Welcome Welcome!
    FAQs

FAQs

Question

Aren't you two already married?

Answer

That's a common misconception! While we have been going around together for almost six years now, we are not in fact married. Thank you for helping us to change that!

Question

What can I get you for a wedding gift? Are you registered somewhere?

Answer

Thank you for the thought, but please don't feel obligated to give us anything at all. As it turns out, we already have two toasters! If you're able to join us, we'll be delighted, and if you're not, we still love you anyway.

Question

That's nice, but seriously: where are you registered?

Answer

We mean it. We are not registered anywhere, but thank you for asking!

Question

Are kids invited?

Answer

We love your kids, and if it will help get you in the celebratory mood to bring them along, do so! If you do expect to bring your child, please let us know when you RSVP, so that we have a seat for them at your table. Please note, however, that in accordance with Douglas County code, children under ten will be restricted to beer and wine only. No hard drinks!

Question

What if I urgently need a night away from my kids, and am looking forward to your wedding as an excuse to take one?

Answer

You do you. If you'd like, we can help connect you with reliable local child wranglers.

Question

What does cocktail attire mean?

Answer

Well, it's Kansas... but it's an evening wedding... but, it's still Kansas. Use your best judgment, but if you'd like to send us a selfie of your proposed outfit, we'd be happy to review it.

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