FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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The sooner, the better! We kindly request RSVPs by June 15, 2025.
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What is the dress code?
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Black-Tie Optional. We kindly ask our guests to dress in formal attire, keeping in mind the sacredness of the Catholic Mass. Men are encouraged to wear suits paired with button-down shirts, with ties preferred but optional. Women may choose a floor-length gown, midi dress, or pantsuit. In respect for the Mass, we ask for attire that reflects modesty and reverence, avoiding revealing or casual clothing. For this reason, we ask that you refrain from wearing jeans. Your consideration is deeply appreciated.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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We kindly request that you arrive at the ceremony by 1:45 PM to allow time for parking, finding your seat, and joining us in prayer before the Mass begins. The Mass will start promptly at 2 PM.
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Will the ceremony and reception be at the same location?
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The ceremony will take place at the St. Mary’s Catholic Center’s “Old Church” (White Steeple). The reception will follow at Camp Hosea, approximately 20 minutes away in Anderson, Texas.
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to venue restrictions, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests. We kindly ask that you refrain from bringing a plus one unless it’s indicated on your invitation. Thank you so much for your understanding!
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Are children invited?
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We adore your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration unless otherwise noted on your invitation. We understand this may pose a challenge and truly appreciate your understanding. If needed, please don’t hesitate to reach out to Isabella, who may be able to assist in connecting you with a trusted local babysitter. Thank you!
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This is a Catholic wedding, but I am not Catholic. What is the Mass?
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The Catholic Mass is the celebration of the Eucharist, where the Church re-presents the one eternal sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. It is not a repetition of Christ’s death, as He died once for all, but a way for believers to join in that single, timeless act of love and redemption. At the Last Supper, Jesus instituted the Eucharist, asking His followers to “do this in remembrance of me.” In the Mass, this command is fulfilled as bread and wine are consecrated to become His Body and Blood. The Eucharist is a sacrament, an action instituted by Jesus while he was on Earth, which bestows specific graces through physical means. This sacrament allows believers to share in the fruits of Christ’s death and resurrection, offering a memorial that is both symbolic and real. The Mass is more than a commemorative meal; it is a living participation in Christ’s eternal offering to the Father. Under the appearance of bread and wine, Christ's Body and Blood become truly present on the altar. Jesus, through the hands of the priest, presents again his single sacrifice, unbloodily, to the Father on behalf of the faithful. By participating in the Mass, Catholics join with Christ, offering themselves as a living sacrifice and receiving the spiritual nourishment of His body and blood. This profound mystery incorporates believers into the Body of Christ, both spiritually and physically.