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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Helen ReFalo and Adam Andrian
If you have any questions on the day of, please contact the Mother of the Bride, Allison ReFalo
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What should I wear?

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Cocktail Attire, preferably in our color scheme. Other colors allowed: Dark Navy Blues and Dark Charcoal Greys -Cocktail attire strikes a balance between formal and casual, suitable for events like cocktail parties, weddings, and formal gatherings. -Key components for men’s cocktail attire include suits, dress shirts, ties, and polished shoes. -Key components for women’s cocktail attire include dresses, suits, elegant fabrics, and chic accessories. PLEASE DO NOT WEAR: flip flops, jeans, casual attire/everyday clothing or majority White (that is reserved for the Bride) Check this Guide for more information https://suitshop.com/blogs/news/what-is-cocktail-attire/ You may also want to bring a light jacket, cardigan/shawl, or change of shoes for the reception. End of October can get chilly

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What is the Color Scheme?

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Merlot and Moss Deep burgundy, olive, moss and forest greens, creams and black Reference above

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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August 30th at the latest, anyone that has not sent in their RSVP by then will be marked as not coming

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Can I bring a plus one or my children?

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No. Only the people addressed on your invitation are allowed, we have a very small guest list and appreciate each and every one of you. Children are limited to the brides niece and nephew. Please make arrangements so you can join us but we understand if you are unable to. If you have questions, please reach out to the bride

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What is the Itinerary?

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Please Arrive by 3pm to allow time to park and get situated before the start of the ceremony Ceremony will start promptly at 3:30pm Reception to follow Wedding will end promptly at 9pm

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Where is the ceremony and reception?

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Both are at the same location, in Hunterdon County NJ on a Lavender Farm Address will be given to those that RSVP

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Where do I park?

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There is a lot as you enter. Feel free to pull up to by the barns and let passengers out then move car to the lot. no cars are allowed to stay up top

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Am I allowed to smoke?

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Yes but only by the bathrooms. All cigarette butts must be in the provided receptacle. Please do not trash our lovely venue

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I have allergies to certain foods, what should I do?

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Please contact us so we can relay the information to our caterers so you can enjoy the meal with us. We will have gluten free options.

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Will there be an open bar?

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We will have a bartender pouring Wine and Beer and a specialty cocktail. Please choose what you will primarily drink on your RSVP card to make sure we have enough for everyone

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Can I photograph/Video your ceremony?

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No, we have hired a professional Please put all cellphones away during our ceremony. We do not want anyone being embarrassed when our professional photos come back and you are not simply enjoying the ceremony with us but too focused on documenting it yourself. So no, we will have professionals documenting our day. There will be time after to take plenty of cellphone photos together

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Can we post to Social Media?

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Please keep posting to ONLY to instagram or facebook STORIES on socials until the couple makes their first official post. Please send us any photos you take throughout the night as we would love to save those memories in an album. Additionally, we will have disposable cameras on the tables, please feel free to use throughout the night and return to the basket by the entry before you leave