Despite the word wedding in the URL, no. But this is a commitment ceremony and not just a backyard potluck. Words will be said. It'll be a handfasting, with our friend Lea acting as MC/officiate.
Yes, and several are coming. But do let us know to expect them :)
Mostly folks should park along the street, close to the house. Try to be a good neighbor.
We don't share a house together and we both have homes filled with stuff. We both recently bought homes in Massachusetts, and do hope to travel next year, and contributions towards that would be appreciated (but not expected). We greatly appreciate people's presence and participation, in person or online.