We met in September 2018. After a week of messaging, we went on our first date. We met on OkCupid after knowing some friends and their success leading to marriage. We were both ready for a relationship and were very transparent about our lives and expectations. We agreed to knock off some nervousness of a first date by kissing as soon as we met. It was easier to know if there was a spark than to wait until after the date of eating Italian food. We had instant chemistry and were officially a couple 4 days after our first date. It was love at first sight and we have been inseparable since.