FAQ
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Can I bring a plus one?
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If your invitation says “and guest,” then yes! If not… we love that you’re social, but we’re working with a budget and a headcount. Respectfully: no crashers, no surprises, no Tinder dates.
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Are kids welcome?
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We’ve got ours in the wedding, so yes — kids are welcome! Just please remember: if your child turns into a full-blown gremlin after 7 p.m., maybe plan accordingly. We say that with love… and snacks.
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What’s the dress code?
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Dressy-ish. Think: cute, classy, and something you can still dance in. This isn’t the Met Gala, but it’s also not backyard BBQ vibes. When in doubt: lean dressy, avoid jeans, and if you’re still unsure — text us a pic. We will judge you silently but helpfully.
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Will there be food and drinks?
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Would we invite you to a party without food and drinks? Please. Come hungry, come thirsty, and come ready for cake.
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Is there an open bar?
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There will be a cash bar, so bring those cards or that Apple Pay. No outside alcohol allowed. Seriously — the venue charges a $2500 fine, and as much as we love you, we’re not risking that over a flask in your boot.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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In a word: no. We love your enthusiasm, but we hired a photographer with actual angles and no iPad in front of their face. Sit back, be present, and save the camera roll for the reception. (We promise there’ll be plenty of good lighting and bad dancing later.)
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What time should I actually show up?
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On time. Early, even. Like, pretend it’s a flight and TSA is slow. We love a dramatic entrance — but only if you’re the bride.
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Where do I go when I arrive?
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Head to the main entrance and make your way to The Estate Room — if you end up somewhere that looks suspiciously like a storage closet, turn around. You’re too early for the hide-and-seek portion of the evening.
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Where should I sit?
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There will be signs. Possibly a chart. Probably a cousin pointing. Worst case? Pick a seat, act confident, and pretend you belong. Weddings are 90% vibes anyway.
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Where are you registered?
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Well, we were skipping the traditional registry and asking for gift money instead — we’ve got enough stuff, but we’re building a life (and paying for this party 😅). Your generosity means the world to us! But if you’d like to check our amazon registry here is the link!
