FAQs

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When and where is this wedding taking place?

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Our wedding will be on Saturday, November 14th, 2026 at 3:00 pm at Separk Mansion in Gastonia, NC. Check back later for a more detailed itinerary. 209 W. 2nd Avenue Gastonia, NC 28052

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Where is the reception?

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The reception is at the same location as the ceremony! Following the ceremony, please join us for a cocktail hour and reception with dinner provided.

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Will food and beverages be served?

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Yes! Dinner and drinks will be provided.

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What is the dress code?

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Guests are encouraged to wear semi-formal attire. Bridesmaids will be wearing the color steel blue and groomsmen will be wearing navy blue suits. We kindly request that guests refrain from wearing the color white or casual attire, including jeans, shorts, or flip-flops. Ties are optional. Please keep in mind, weather permitting, the ceremony will occur outdoors with an indoor reception to follow. The venue includes grass areas so block heels, wedges, or flats may be more comfortable than stilettos.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to space limitations, we are only able to accommodate guests who are formally invited. If a plus one has been included, their name will be listed on the invitation. Thank you for your understanding.

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Will kids be allowed?

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While we wish we could celebrate with everyone, we are only able to invite guests who are 12 or older. We hope this allows everyone to relax and enjoy the celebration, and we truly appreciate your understanding.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to keep phones and cameras away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present. Our professional photographers will capture every important moment, and we cannot wait to share photos with you afterwards!

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?

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Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for details of our hotel block. Our hotel block is for the Hampton Inn in Belmont, all other hotels are just recommendations from our venue!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for recommendations.

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Is there parking at the wedding venue?

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Yes! While there is a parking lot for venue guests, spots are limited so carpooling is encouraged.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, we will try our best to accommodate for most food allergies and dietary restrictions! Our dinner will be served buffet style and we will try our best to include allergen friendly options. Please ensure you let us know in advance when you RSVP.

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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?

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For any questions or concerns, please contact Haydon at 609-571-2333. If Haydon cannot fully address your inquiry, you may reach out to Lexi at 704-840-4608 (Please don’t. We don’t want a stressed Lexi. lol jk you can)