Haydn and Derek have been friends for years, but began dating in January 2020. Although both are from West Michigan, their relationship has always been long distance due to Haydn attending law school in Des Moines, IA and Derek recently moving to New York City. Despite the distance, the couple makes monthly trips to see each other, and sometimes even ventures to new destinations (like Denver, Nashville, and Chicago). Derek proposed on May 8, 2021. Even though it was a cold and rainy day, he told Haydn to wear a dress + heels for their adventure through New York. They went up to the Edge (the tallest viewing deck in the Western Hemisphere), out for a snack, and then for a long walk through Central Park. Much to Derek's chagrin, Haydn was not too excited to trek around in heels, but it was well worth once Derek turned and said "Well, I think you know why we're here" as he got down on one knee.