Maid of Honor
Sister, best friend, platonic soulmate, ride-or-die, the Ben Affleck to my Henry Cavill… There are so many ways I could describe our relationship. Lydia, you have been a constant in my life at times when everything else seemed to be falling apart. From admiring your personal style as a pre-teen and basking in your outgoing presence at parties when I was too shy to speak for myself, to watching you light up as you share with anyone who’ll listen your relationship with God and the hope you have in Him, i have always looked up to you. Your adventurous spirit has led me down many paths over the years, involving making friends with strangers, dancing till 2am with said strangers, mountain biking through red clay in flip-flops, eating way too many tortillas and cheese sticks, and petting every dog we see, just to name a few. And yes, I collect a new bunch of bruises and sprains every time, but they’ve all been worth it. You’ve pushed me to grow, speak up, love others and myself, and keep laughing through every up and down. Carrying yourself with grace and confidence that only comes from a grounded relationship with your Lord, you’re an inspiration. I’ll be looking up to you forever. I’m so honored to have you stand with me as my Maid of Honor on the most important day of my life.
Bridesmaid
Your middle name is Grace, and I’ve truly never seen grace more thoroughly embodied in a human being than I do in you. Miriam, even though I did give you a hard time growing up, your quiet sweetness has had more of an impact on me than I’ve let on over the years. I’ve never known someone who rests in their Savior the way you do, and your faith is something I want to grow in myself. I love having shared a room all our lives, playing card games late into the night, sharing our bizarre dreams in the morning… All of the plants you’ve given me that I’ve promptly killed. RIP. They were appreciated. No one would know from your serene smile the goofball that lies beneath. I’m so grateful that I’ve been able to experience it. And I’m grateful for every second we get together as sisters. My wedding day wouldn’t be complete without you. (Also, congrats again on your recent marriage!!)
Bridesmaid
“Hi, I’m Hava Thomson and this is my associate, Ovaltine Jenkins.” From my friend’s little sister to my best friend, one of my favorite people in the whole world… Salomé, you have been such a gift in my life. 7 years of One Direction fangirling and Psych references, but also deep discussions on my bathroom floor, life milestones, shopping trips, 15 minute voice memos, shared tears, karaoke nights, complex handshakes, short story writing (ME-OW), and an unbreakable trust. You’ve seen literally every side of me and only ever hugged me closer. You’re the definition of kindness and determination, and watching you grow as a woman of God has been such a privilege. You inspire me with your positive outlook on life, your depth of care for those around you, and an incredible spiritual maturity. My other sister. As I’ve told you before, getting married without you next to me is not an option. I can’t wait to cry and laugh and dance with you. Love you, Boo.
Bridesmaid
Tabithahhh! I absofruitly HAD to ask this absolute unit of a cousin to be my bridesmaid. What started as an out-of-the-blue text in 2021 has become a friendship for the ages. Seriously, i don’t know how I lived before we got close… it’s all an empty blur that i don’t care to remember lol. Tabs, you are an absolute gem. One of my favorite people to ask for advice, because I know you’re a straight shooter and everything you say is out of love, I have thoroughly enjoyed our many talks over the years. I love the “I have TEA” texts, the inside-jokes and lingo that most people really can’t understand, and your unbelievable dancing abilities, as well as your adorable obsession with dinosaurs. Kind-hearted, smart, and incredibly witty, you’re one of those people I genuinely enjoy being around at any time. I also know I can trust you implicitly. Our relationship really is the whole package. I’ve known for the last 5 years that if I ever got married, I’d be asking you to stand with me. Can’t believe it’s finally here, and I’m so relieved you said yes… it was dicey for a second there.