We met at one of the get togethers in high school. I was dating a boy that went to school with Jeff. We remained friends for all of these years. Then after 1 failed marriage for both of us and other toxic relationships we saw each other quite a bit until the "friends" turned into marriage. We are both flabbergasted by how things worked out. We always look at each other in disbelief that so many years later we would be in a loving relationship and getting married..