FAQs

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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

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Semi-formal attire is required. Think cocktail dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or skirts/trousers with a nice top for women, and dress pants with a button-down shirt (a blazer or sport coat is optional but encouraged) for men. No jeans, shorts, or casual wear, please. We want everyone to feel comfortable while still keeping things classy for the celebration!

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will take place outdoors, surrounded by the natural beauty of the Thousand Islands. Following that, guests are invited indoors for cocktail hour and a lively reception to celebrate together.

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What’s the weather like in Clayton, NY that time of year?

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Late September in Clayton, NY is typically mild and pleasant, with daytime highs in the mid-60s to low 70s and cooler evenings in the upper 40s to mid-50s. Humidity is comfortable, and the early signs of fall create a cozy, scenic atmosphere—perfect for an outdoor celebration or waterfront stroll.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Please check your invitation or RSVP—if you were given a plus-one, it will be listed there!

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Where should I stay?

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We’ve listed some hotel recommendations under the Travel + Stay section of our site. Book early—weekends in upstate NY can fill quickly!

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin at 4 p.m. sharp—please arrive at least 15 minutes early to find your seat and settle in.

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What kind of food will be served?

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We’ll be serving a full dinner buffet as well as appetizers, and of course - an open bar. Let us know any dietary restrictions when you RSVP!

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Will there be an open bar?

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You bet! We’ll be serving a selection of wine, beer, and signature cocktails.

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What’s the best gift to give?

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Your presence is the best gift! But if you'd like to give more, check out our registry, or feel free to bring us a card or gift to the wedding. <3

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by August 25, 2026 so we can finalize our headcount. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!