We met at The Volstead, the bar where Paul works. Jessica lives in the neighborhood and so had become a regular. One Swing Dance Sunday, she stepped away from her vodka martini to do the two-step, and when she came back to the bar, her drink had vanished! Paul had put it in the chiller to keep it fresh for her. (Side note: Jessica later learned that Paul did this for all his favorite regulars, but, well, that martini led to Facebook friendship, first dates, and now marriage!)