FAQs

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

Due to space and wanting to have an intimate wedding we ask that you do not bring a date, as we are not doing "plus ones". Every guest will be invited via an invitation and names can be found on said invitations.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception? What happens when I arrive?

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The ceremony and reception will both be held at the venue, Historic Shady Lane. There is parking available at the venue and parking attendants will be there to show you to the guest parking. The attendants are available 60 minutes prior to the ceremony and golf carts are available once you have parked your car. If you wish to walk, a staff member will show you where the ceremony is being held. Throughout the afternoon/evening the golf carts are also able to be used.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We have a register that can be located on the "registry" tab. We also have another one on Amazon that is linked here, https://www.amazon.com/wedding/share/mikesellhartlaub In our "register" tab there is an option to give money towards our honeymoon if that is what you prefer. We appreciate all and any kinds of gifts, your presence is the best gift of all.

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Are kids welcome?

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If children are included in your invitation, they are invited! Their names will be listed as a part of your RSVP.

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When should I RSVP by?

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We ask that you RSVP by September 12th, 2025. When you RSVP please let us know exactly who is attending, based on the guests listed on your invitation.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, our wedding dress code is going to be semi-formal. However, we ask that you keep your jeans and hats at home. If you have any questions please feel free to contact us. Thanks in advance!